Changing Of The Horse

The Horse cannot be shared, the Girl wants it all to herself and the Boy fears if it is shared the Horse will not take to the Girl and it's allegiance will stay firmly with the Boy. The Boy knows this because he allows others to use the Horse from time to time, they have fun riding it for a while, then when it is time the Horse is returned to the Boy and the Stranger will leave. But the Girls intentions are different. She wishes to have the Horse permanently.

The Boy is still in mixed feelings. The Girl will not always see the Horse, and when she does ride the Horse who's to say that she will enjoy it or if the Horse will ever stop missing the Boy. But if the Horse stays with the Boy then the Horse and his Boy will be happy, but the Girl will not be.

Over the negotiation period the Horse seems to have grown fond of the Girl, but it is not enough to leave the Boy. But how long can the Horse and his Boy continue like this, the string of Strangers wishing to ride the Horse may end, and then what will they have? The Boy will wish the Horse went to the Girl, but by then it will be too late.

The Horse And His Boy

A Girl walks into a Boy's yard and asks to buy his Horse. This Boy has fond memories with the Horse and knows that this Girl will to enjoy the Horse as much as he has and wishes to pass it on. But he does not want to lose the Horse. He wishes to keep what he owns regardless of the joy the Girl will experience from it. He contemplates.

This Boy is yet to make a decision. Which is better, to lose something you love for the sake of someone else's happiness even if it means giving up your own, or keeping your happiness at the sake of someone losing theirs? 

Who Are You?

I'm getting worse, I'm going through an angry phase. It's definitely due to my stress levels rising with the pending exams growing ever closer, and maybe not having a cigarette for a few days is also a contributing factor. But that's only because I'm determined to convince myself that I'm not addicted anymore, which I'm not, as proved by me not wanting one right now. Although my apparent decremented dopamine levels tell me that they may have had a temporary impact on my brain, just a tad, but I just need to push through it. 


I became one of those "keyboard badmen" yesterday, you know when someone gets all loud on the internet to you yet you know if you were standing right next to them they wouldn't dare say any of it. Yeah well, I sort of did that except Im okay with it because it had to be done over the internet. You see, I know I shouldn't mention the "F" Word on here because I may be bombarded by angry blogger addicts who can't believe I would even mention it. I say this because I have got the impression that, even in my limited time here, most bloggers hate Facebook. 


But anyway, I was on Facebook and I get a friend request. I click on it to see who it is. It's a girl. She isn't too bad. I recognise her, is it from work? I decide to add her because I think I know her, and she's hot so why not. So I add her and begin to tear myself apart morally by flicking through her pictures to see if I know her, turns out I don't. I engage in conversation with the girl with a blunt "Who are you?". Nothing. No reply all night. 


So the next day I'm cheating on all the bloggers once more by going onto Facebook and engaging in a conversation with an acquaintance of mine, her choice not mine, and she brings up that she thinks her friend added me. I tell her she did. We converse from here about why added me - strange the girl didn't tell me this herself -  and apparently they told her where I worked and she thought I was hot. Interesting. This is immediately sounding like she's desperate. Desperate. So after hearing this useless piece of information being a desperate little girl one year younger than me she logs on to your Anti-christ Facebook and finds Frenk. She clicks send request. I naively accept and here we are. I just found out why she added me. 


Now, I bring my next actions down to the fact that I have been nicotine starved for a couple of  days now, I have a relatively short fuse anyway and little tolerance for a girl who adds someone out of nowhere and then does not engage in slight conversation explaining why she added him. That to me is just fucking rude. Therefore, I had reason to become this "keyboard badman" that I loath due to the fact that it was because she was adding me on Facebook without knowing me that was fucking me off, and as I do not know her the only was to express my annoyance was through Facebook chat, the device that lets you down more than a Lancia Beta. My words to her are as follows:

"Right listen, I don't know you, you don't know me. Yes I know, you know someone I know and visa versa, but really I couldnt give a shit. Add me when you actually fucking know me."

Now this may have been a bit over the top but I was angry and so far I was the only one who had attempted to communicate with her, and she had added me! Therefore I feel my actions were completely justified. 


I cannot believe I just posted something entirely devoted to shouting at a girl adding me on Facebook. 

The Boy

As I sit there watching, just watching, this young child, who perhaps has potential in his life to do something. As I sit there watching him being abused, two people ganging up on him, shouting, putting him down, making him feel lonely, left out and unnecessary. With each day they all grow, slowly, but the shouting grows quickly, the neglect grows faster, and the boy blossoms into something with character and spirit, a talented young child, but he is insecure, broken and worried, fractured by the cruel actions from those who are supposed to be guiders, loving and a helping hand. With each day the abuse continues, no rewards, no love, nothing. And he doesn’t want to be selfish he doesn’t want to complain, his brain is drilled with negativity, he is surrounded by happiness but he can’t feel any of it because he has been, pushed, blamed, mistreated, neglected, abused, tortured in his small fragile little mind, still growing still learning, and it is now learning that the body it is in is selfish, self centred, because that’s what he has been made to believe. He can’t complain, because it is “his fault” the statement gets stuck in his head, it stops him like a wall trapping him from normality, keeping him locked inside bedlam. Soon all these things said to him blossom into a voice in his head, their voices, those two telling him “no you can’t do that!” he is powerless the voices in his head control him, every move he makes every thought he thinks is controlled by them. As he grows the voices are much more, they invade his thoughts they become him, yet his talent is strong, he can’t see it, I watch as he grows bigger, stronger and more accustomed to the world around him, yet I watch as he fails because he constantly tells himself “I can’t” he doubts, he loathes, he hates himself, the neglect setting in he blames himself for everything, after all that’s what was meant to happen.

As I watch him grow, I watch him realise, he begins to understand, he knows that this isn’t him, that he shouldn’t be like this, he knows who to blame, he is in a battle with the two people, who are blameless, they tell him he is stupid, that it’s his fault, he can’t handle it he acts out, in rages losing things that are most important to him, soon his parents turn, they blame him, the other two are blameless, “it’s not their fault it’s mine” he tells himself, the wall gets wider and taller, as he grows, his self confidence is shattered, he bashes against the wall over and over again, criticised, humiliated, blamed. A brick falls and another, and he can peer through, he sees success he can see a positive image of himself beyond the wall, a talent is revealed, he thrives even more in it, there are no voices there is nothing telling him “you can’t” or “you’re not good enough” he can see now he is not useless. After years more bricks are removed and he can see more of his life, more success, more thriving, and more positivity. No more being held back by himself, he moves forward, he is older now and wiser, he can see clearly, he knows how to do things, but the wall is not gone, he can still not see other things, he is still restricted to believe in himself. The voices will always be there driving him back, stopping him in his tracks making him wonder.

I tell you this only knowing what I remember. I saw this child grow into something that he is not meant to be. I watch him fight every day. I remove the bricks just to give him a helping hand, which he should have received from those who should love him, and because I do this I help him see. Hope is all he needs, belief and understanding that he can be good at what he does, that he can succeed, he can be someone who he wants to be, not someone who they want him to be. He is lost, afraid, alone, and I am the light guiding him away from the dark. Believe in him and he will believe in himself. The bricks have fallen down before, what makes you think they should stop. Make him believe in who he is.

Out, Out, Brief Candle!

I have been stuck with the same boring routine for the last two weeks. I am already losing my mind. I sympathise for farmers, how they go to sleep contented I will never know. I wake up, go downstairs and face leg scratching. I send the puppies outside. Whether I clean up the hideous amounts of shit or feed the puppies immediately proves to be the most interesting dilemma I will probably face all day. In one hand I have ridding myself of an annoying shriek coming from behind the window door with four paws erratically scratching at it calling to there apparent surrogate mother to satisfy the starvation they have been experiencing for little over four hours, and in the other hand I have a worsening smell coming from a small shit filled room that has ben naturally fermenting the odours of these tiny little animals for just about ten hours now. I chose the smell. My nose is apparently more sensitive than my ears. I can handle a shriek, I go to school with British girls who crave attention over their problems remember. But a bad smell no one can get used to - unless you count the farmers who I am yet to understand.

I clear the shit, then I feed - apparently the scratching and screeching gets on my nerves in the morning after a while - following this I get to mopping. When I have done this I go an have a cigarette. This demanding morning situation on my senses, in my opinion, is a perfect advert for how a chemically crammed death stick does seem necessary - after all it's not like I have time to rustle up an emotion balancing smoothie that the health police are so desperately promoting nowadays.

I light up this thin white carcinogen and am immediately being attacked by what some would see as wolverine on speed, but no it is just two puppies who love me unconditionally. Funny way of showing affection don't you think. The only people who would agree with this display of love are those men who smack their wives around each morning where some husbands would just give a delicate kiss. But to each their own.

I go back into the house with my legs and hands suitably shredded, which begs the question, why do I try so very hard to hold aloft this smouldering amber tipped finger to prevent these innocents from harm when all they do is show me the shiny side of their claws? So I'm in the house, cleaning up the mess I made the day before that I was too idol to clean up the previous night due to the suggestion to myself that doing it in the morning will get me in the mood to work. I don't want to work after this, in fact I'm closer to gauging out my organs so I will be taken into intensive care so some sorry prick will look after me for a change. All this cleaning just makes me crave my breakfast even more. A breakfast that I feel I owe myself to spend an hour eating, even though it's a simple bowl of cereal.

Do I shower, or does the thought of standing up for a prolonged period of time while something similar to a jet engine thunders away at my right ear make me want to stay sitting and watch another episode of Top Gear? I think I'll chose the less hygienic route. Just when I thought I procrastinated enough I either get on with some work or an opportunity will present itself to me where I can put off doing work just a bit longer. The nomination could be classed as enough time wasting.

Let's say I chose to work. I sit myself down, get organised. I start working. My mind is swilling around theodicies or models of abnormality depending on which subject I choose to dive into, but my concentration is broken by a worrying snarl. This is the snarl of two, very awake, puppies leaping at each other with their jaws wide open. This is supposedly supposed to be seen as "playing", I'm getting a second opinion. It's hard to concentrate with this noise. So I sit back down and channel hop for a while, jumping up and down to check whether they have fallen to exhaustion yet. When they do I resume my work, completely unfocused because as luck would have it the minute they drop off a programme i want to watch comes on. Great. But I power through and find myself immersed in Freud, Anselm, Joda, Aristotle or anyone else depending on my choice of subject.

However, it's not long until they're awake again and bingo it's nearly two. Time for meal number two. I feed them and if I've gone down the unhygienic route it means I'm probably still in a dressing gown so my second layer of skin is about to be removed from my legs. Ladies forget waxing because I have found a treatment that will solve all your prickly problems, tackle your leg hair at the root by removing your skin, I have just the instruments you need to make this dream come true and they will work on each leg simultaneously. Just fantastic don't you think?

They run around for a bit, take a shit which is either full of the twigs they consume because the four meals a day they receive isn't large enough or half a foam rugby ball they devoured when I wasn't looking. I sit down and my other dog, the one who is supposed to be easy, starts to whine. He has seen something at the end of the garden. Therefore, this calls for the pigeon he is not going to kill to be chased after immediately. So I have to get up, let him out, console the puppies after they scream with terror when he looks at them, let him back inside when he gives up on his murder attempt, and then resume my work. I do quite a lot in the time my whole animal household is asleep. Then when the time comes I feed them again and decide as it is nearing half six I'll feed myself. I eat and am immediately on my feet to feed the other dog at seven.

I have now decided I do not want to work so I sit and watch television, or in cases like tonight have a girl round who I can have a long insignificant chat about things that I really don't give a shit about but I just spend the time wondering whether or not I'd like to fuck her by the end of the night. I decide I'm too tired and send her on her way, but not before irritating this conversational addict with the puppy choir singing "feeding time" conducted by yours truly.

So she's gone. The puppies are in their basket following a little discipline given out in order that they learn to be more well behaved whilst they watch their disposable newspaper toilet being laid out in the corner of the room, they are yet to regard it as necessary and decide to shit all over the floor. I then give my dog a biscuit, which we have now conveniently run out of, and retire to my room to watch a film I won't remember in the morning.

Hopefully, you can now understand why I stop myself from sleeping by writing this post because the idea of having to go through that day again when I wake up is about as daunting as Macbeth's candlelit journey through his castle before he kills the king.

Paradoxical Mind

I felt it, I know what it is; even now as I am writing this I am feeling it, absolutely everything at once hitting me but I don’t know what it is, my mind completely just goes I cannot think of anything because it is spinning round and round, and round and round, repeating itself over and over again, the sounds in my life seem like they are only miniscule yet the sounds in my head are growing increasingly louder, I am completely zoned out and they are cracking me I don’t know what they are and they are driving me crazy, the sound of my life like the ticking of a clock seems so simple, so quiet yet they are screaming at me in my head, lost of any sort of control or any sort of understanding of the biological building blocks which hold my sanity in place; they repeat until I hear nothing I know nothing they just keep going over and over and over, repeating themselves getting louder and louder, everything is surreal and I don’t know what I am writing even to this second I am just writing because I feel I need to remember this feeling. It is utterly terrifying and euphoric at the same time, the feeling that you have lost your sense of control and understanding compels you to find out where it is going and it just ascends and ascends, repeating and repeating until it finally stops, but it hasn’t stopped, the ticking from the clock is still there, its noise has not increased or decreased yet I perceive it in a way that is completely unnatural for the human mind to experience and I feel as if my body has completely separated itself from my mind, my mind is shouting, I am shouting and yet I sit here completely motionless, unaware of my surroundings as it engulfs my entire being, I know it is wrong I know I must not let it take me but I need to know, I need to find an answer for why it is happening so I let it take me allowing me to lose myself from reality allowing me to completely detach myself from myself, the utter...

It has stopped, it’s all stopped just like that, like the flick of a switch, and I got no answers and even now I can’t replicate the feelings I just felt. The way in which I interpreted the sounds of life around me, the ticking of a clock seems like I perceive it normally yet I crave the unsettling ideas I had for it only moments ago. Even now I feel I have written only two lines yet I look up and I am nearing a page of utter madness and insecurity, my mind is calm, completely, the only thing I am grateful for is that I was sitting at my computer and was able to pull myself out of the nonresponsive state I have been experiencing for the last ten minutes, just staring at the letter “f”, hearing the sound I cannot comprehend going round and round, faster and faster, louder and louder, I cannot control it whatever it is, whatever I do, it makes no sense I just have to hope it won’t take me into it so deep that I lose my self, becoming completely and utterly psychotic, and I need it to stop, on its own, forcing myself out of it is impossible and maybe even detrimental to my mental state at this moment in time, so I must allow it to stop and it has, so I am glad for that.

Baby Steps

I would call it writers block, but in truth I'm running words off for this pretty quickly, so I'll settle with unwillingness. That is usually the fuel for procrastination. For one never procrastinates if they are willing to engage in the activity to start with. 


I've been doing well recently as well. Working quite solidly. But now, I just can't be fucked! 


Spoke to my Dad the other day about how much of a cunt he's been being recently. Of course he didn't see it that way. But I said to him, "Dad you chose to have three children."
He looked down at his feet and said "Well..." whilst shaking his head. 


Never been much of a Dad though. Hell, I suppose the man living with me now who recently busted my lip with his fist has been more of a Dad to me than anyone. I shouldn't really say that, it's a bit harsh on my real Dad. Plus Sydney's a cunt. 


No I wasn't a problem child caused by my lack of a father figure growing up, even though I probably should have been. I was actually quite a good child. Glad it ended though. I hated growing up. People used to look down, smile and say "Hello! How're Harry's holidays?" it was so patronising. It didn't help that I was a foot shorter than most women, and my face was cute as a button whereas most the faces I looked at resembled a large portion of shit. 


Yeah so childhood wasn't great. 


Although I have an interesting mind so growing up wasn't all that bad. I watched people, their movements in the day. I analysed their reasoning behind everything. 


But I was never forced into religion. My father's a baptist and my mother's a catholic. I've been baptised, christened and confirmed. I now write to you as a strong atheist, and I've never been happier. Although I do pity the religious ones. I feel they're ignorant. But that's a discussion for a post not so filled already. 

Nothingness

You fall quicker than you expect to, you start off slow so you never really think anything of it but before you can think about what is happening you plummet into the gaping black abyss. You won’t stop for a while, this will make it even more unbearable because of the enigma of it all, the mystery, you anticipate an ending yet it will not happen that way, it never does. You can wish you just hit the bottom sooner because it would be easier that way, much easier than the truth being kept from you, being lied to by your own thoughts, your own feelings deceiving you, making you feel something completely different to the truth. They trick you, send your mind spiralling out of control and you believe them time after time, no matter how much it happens you believe them, because why would they lie to you? When you strike the cold wet floor in this hellish hole you wish you had never landed and you hate yourself for wanting it to come sooner. It chills you to your core. The horror that has hindered any sort of happiness from existing in your mind, it has been pushed out by emptiness. You won’t come back. Not for a long time. You may as well give up hope, because however many times you climb up those walls, reaching towards the dimming light above with bloody cut up hands, however many times you make it to the top, breathing in the clean air with your dust filled lungs, every time you see that person walking towards you and assume they will help, you will find that they will always push you back down and you will be right where you started, in nothingness. There is no bottom, there are no walls, you only create those to help you find an excuse for what is happening to you, but in truth nothing is happening, it is only your mind telling you what you want to believe even if it is not right for you. The reality is, is that none of this is real, there is nothing only nothingness. 

Look At What You're Living In

Just stop. Look around you. Look at everything, the grass or maybe the walls, it might be that special someone who brightens up your day just by smiling. Just look around and take in every single piece of what you see. Touch it, feel it inside you. Don’t shy away from it or neglect its presence, don’t see it as a bad thing and begin to force negativity upon yourself, because none of it is true, nothing you see right now is bad, it’s all meant to be that way. Because that is the beauty of life, there’s a good point to everything. You may not see it, you may think that everything you see is wrong and that it is only causing you pain. But, let me tell you this, it is not causing you pain you are in fact causing yourself pain by not opening up to the possibility that what you are staring at is good and helpful to you. Until you open up to this possibility you will constantly be held back by your own ignorance and that will prevent you making any beneficial move in your life. Would you do that if you really thought about it? And the obvious answer to that is no, so don’t paralyse your ability to be happy by doing it subconsciously, you won’t gain anything from it, you’ll end up segregating yourself from anyone because of a contagious depression which you will cast upon a room and people won’t want to be around that. So stop. Look around you. Look at everything, the grass or maybe the walls, it might be that special someone who brightens up your day just by smiling. Just look around and take in every single piece of what you see. Then think, is it really all that bad?

Beating Go The Drums

Beating go the drums. Beating, beating go the drums.

I walk fast, wind high blows my hair into my face.

Blue sky, dash across the road no change in my pace.

I'm not living on the edge but it's better than the slums

Of my mind I cant seem to escape from.

Even when I sleep black holes is all see,

And when I'm awake dead I wish to be.

Irritated mostly by the same constant song.

Beating go the drums. Beating, beating go the drums.

Standing in this wood all alone staring at the trees.

Never further from death do I wish to be.

Feeling odd like a baby sucking both my thumbs.

As I look into the distance the sun begins to set.

Darkness will be upon me before I make it home,

But nothing really matters so long as I'm alone

And until then I may as well forget.

But beating go the drums. Beating, beating go the drums.

This beat goes round my head driving me insane,

Never from this point will I ever be the same.

I cannot rid this sound, won't escape the wretched drums.

You can call me from afar, you whisper right up close,

But none of these sounds will make my train of thought.

These drums occupy my mind now, leaving me distraught

Because when I see a bird its song I miss the most.

Beating go the drums. Beating, beating go the drums.

Beating go the drums. Beating, beating go the drums.

Joy To The End

Joy is a lie; life exists upon the false pretence that we may find Joy. Living holds no Joy. The only way we stay sane is by wondering whether the next second, minute or hour will bring us out of the suffering we have to endure each and every day. But soon we realise, when nothing changes after a day, week or month that it is endless, the misery impacts on us and there is nothing we can do to stop it. We can only push it away to the back of our minds and pretend it’s not there like a child in the corner. Sure, we can put on a smile and laugh at the pathetic jokes that we know are not funny. But soon we will have to wake up to our reality and realise that we are running from the fact that there is nothing to laugh or smile about because nothing is funny or worth being happy about, and then it all crashes down around us, the misery, despair and hopelessness, when we realise there is nothing to make us feel warm inside, that we are just animals in a sick masochistic time, it hurts just like everything else we encounter in this life. Only in death can we escape from this shell of sorrow. But why would we escape, born in an optimistic society, we look to the future as if it beholds wonders and only until our flesh and our biological forces give out on us do we realise that there was nothing important in this life to keep struggling on for. So we End. The only regret is that we didn’t End sooner. But at least we End.

Sweet Lamenting

I was once lying down on a sofa. Someone who knew me came and rested their hand gently on my arm. I could not see their face by eyes were shut. I felt their touch for more than an hour. With the poisoning effect of the drugs I had just taken impairing my ability to move or even open my eyes, I was locked in a prison. But one good thing came out of it, I heard things in a completely different way, it was spectacular, all the usual shit that goes round in my head wasn't there anymore it was just filled with the sound of a girl running around shouting my name, and it filled my thoughts like a song.

The hand on my arm felt cold yet comforting, and the song continued. I listened for what felt like days, cliche intended, and it just kept mounting up on my mind. What was this girl doing? Worrying so much about such a small thing. Sure I was passed out on the sofa, with the remnants of my meatball sub in a bowl near me with other crap around it, but it wasn't like I was going to die. I had too much weed for crying out loud get over it. Hysterical bitch.

I was glad the hand was there though, there was such a relief that someone could care without showing it to the entire fucking world. She ran around and ran around and her laments turned sour like milk in the sun. She wasn't doing this for me, she wasn't doing this because she was worried, she wasn't doing this because she felt she ought to. The fucking bitch was exploiting my temporary paralysis to fuel her attention-seeking addiction. She was doing it for her! Running around like a crazy fucking chicken shouting to the heavens about how upset she was made people look at her and care for her. What an attention-seeking whore. She'd be the worst prostitute really, would you want to pick someone up off the side of the road who is screaming "Fuck me, fuck me! My daddy never loved me!" I mean come on, I'd want to see a girl smoking a cigarette sitting down, and as she sees me she stands up and looks at me with those narrow eyes filling me with intoxication. It's subtly that counts, just like the hand resting gracefully on my forearm, not forcing love but still giving it gently so it is accepted well.

The bitch still hasn't stopped by the way. She still hasn't fucking stopped. It's me for crying out loud I'm no Denzel Washington, I'm just that guy. No need to run around screaming "Danny's Dead! Danny's Dead!" because he's not, and you don't care anyway. All you care about is knowing people's eyes are on you, that people are thinking about you, that everyone's saying "How caring are you.". Skank whore.

The hand hasn't moved an inch, it was remarkable. I feel myself coming too, my leg has a bit of a twitch. My eyes flutter a bit. Slowly opening, but they sting as the light comes flooding in. I look up to see who this caring person who sat by me all this time is.


There's no one there.


No one had their hand on me.

Jabs

What a fucking cunt. It's clear I needed help, I asked for it, you agreed and then you fucking bail the day before. What the fuck am I going to do now?

Seriously I'm fucking sick of people letting me down, I mean if you say your going to do something you fucking do it, if you can't do it just fucking tell me I'm not going to get angry. I'm going to get angry if you tell me the day before that you can't do it. Especially with that bullshit I mean what's going on there, you honestly expect me to believe that?

Make of this what you will cunts I needed to waste time while my foods cooking, and I'm pissed the fuck off!

Earth From Above & The Problems Of Prediction

I have this philosophy in life, that maybe isn't concerned with day to day stuff like waking up or getting dressed, it is concerned with things which bore me or worry me or make me hesitant. It's sort of in two parts that are separate to each other in a way.


First Part:

I look at life in its entirety, the past makes up the present and the future is the present in my eyes too. In a sort of contradictory way I focus a lot on the present and my actions whilst taking into account the effects of my action, what made it and what will make it.

Take sex, for example, a lot of people I know adopt the attitude of "a shags a shag" which I too agree with. But I agree with it because I believe that overall in my life, if I shag some fuck ugly munter who looked like she had been attacked with a cheese grater, yeah I may get a lot of shit taken out of me, but ultimately will it effect my outcome in life, my final destination? Probably not, no ones going to come to my old people's home to visit and call me "Grater Graham" will they. Now I didn't shag that girl, and I don't know anyone who looks like that, but the point still stands. I don't give a shit about the present, yet I do give a shit about the present.

I look long-term, my brain has a way of creating thousands of different possibilities about a situation based on different decisions I make, therefore I don't need to worry about what's going to happen the next day if i do something because I already know and I don't care. I know it won't effect my long-term future so why shouldn't I do it.

So I sort of live in a prediction whilst focussing on the present, I'm sure you can understand. Of course there's the problem of prediction but I'm most usually right and when I'm wrong I learn from it and it just becomes another potential scenario. Making mistakes with things is great. I have a serious issue with being wrong, I hate it, but if I'm wrong due to ignorance or non-understanding or just not thinking that even existed, I embrace being wrong in that way.

Just like collecting stamps all your life, you think your set is complete and you are happy with it, then you find a stamp you don't have and it adds more of an aesthetic value to your collection because you know you're better off now than you were before.

Second Part:

When I'm walking somewhere and I know its going to take me a while, I just think "You're going to do it and soon you'll be sitting down thinking about this moment, and moments before this where you finished." and it makes that supposed long walk seem small because the amount of time that past between completing it and thinking about that is greater than the walk, it makes it look pathetic. Like being on the earth travelling you think its massive, then you go into space far away and look at the tiny speck that is our world and you realise how wrong you were about it being huge.

Anarchistic Thoughts

There comes a point in everyone’s life, whether it is now or in forty years, where you hit a point, whatever it may be, that always makes you think.  You will say "fuck it" and you will regret it.

That happens to me far too fucking much.

You could turn away from it, but why do that? Where’s the risk? As people we live on the edge and those who don’t long to be there they are just too afraid of failure. But as soon as you accept that failure is a part of life, that mistakes are the fuel to knowledge and life is not something you can learn about with an exam, do you suddenly acquire the freedom to release yourself from control, that prison that restricts you from doing what you really want, you enable the words “Fuck it” to escape your lips for that one moment where you honestly believe it’s the best choice and however much you regret it you know that without opening that door you would have never found out what’s behind it, and some day you’re going to open it onto a room you know you want to be in and you will never look back.

The nature of people, is not living within the boundaries because society expects you to, we have tightened the bonds on human actions so much that we have forgotten what it is like to be free, and you need to force those bonds out with such anarchistic force that soon it will return to a loose constriction that you can happily breathe with and be yourself without looks or judgements, yet it will still keep you in place where you need to be.

Society is an unfinished picture scribbled on and ruined, and sometimes the only thing to do is to rip it up and start again, until you have recreated the picture you had before without the impurities. Because the only way to make a difference is to make an abhorrent impression, and when you soon influence those impressions on others an extreme picture will form undoubtedly and you can begin to rub it out until it is beautiful again.

It’s the only way to be rid of regret, and people need to realise that. You are not changing the laws by which we live, no; you are simply broadening the horizon to make it easier to see. Sometimes anarchistic force is exactly what is needed to restore comfort in yourself.

Morning Glory

Four hours sleep, woken up by two different alarms in two different room - so I can't turn them both off in my sleep - and greeted at 8am by a room that looks like someone has tossed a couple of shit grenades into it. I feel I should explain. I have puppies and they shit and piss all the fucking time. So I clean it all up and feed her, this is not the greatest thing for someone who loathes mornings as much as the Grinch hates Christmas, then I go outside for my morning cigarette. What do they do? Not shit more, like they usually do, or fight. They continually scratch my bare legs begging for attention, I can't understand what they want passed the point of continuous stroking for around three minutes. Why is it that my other dog hates the sight of a cigarette and stays five metres away from me at all time, but my puppies seem to think its some kind of chew toy I'm withholding from them yet waving around in their faces - I don't literally wave it in their faces, secondhand smoke and all that.
I'm shattered! I have so much work to do and their constant yapping, shitting, pissing and fighting is trying my patience, which is lacking already.

A Cake Or Not A Cake?

This question about the popular Jaffa Cake has been proved irrelevant due to the recent discussion I had on a forum. This discussion revealed to me that a shocking number of Americans have never heard of a Jaffa Cake! What do they think we eat with our tea while we wear our top hats and dinner jackets speaking in funny accents? In truth we don't eat them with our tea, neither do we drink tea all day long and no one ever wears top hats anymore and dinner jackets are predicate on a dinner. But as for the funny accents you're right with that prejudice. Any way even though it was only two Americans who hadn't heard of them, it does suggest there are probably a lot more who don't know what they are as well, which is ironic seeing as all Americans are seen to be the consumers of vast amounts of food.

A Testimony To Our Lives

A dark hole, its jaws stretched wide open, gaping, waiting. People wonder where it goes, some say it leads to hell, others believe it just ends and you die, I believe that it is neither; the hole is life, the worst metaphor in this sad excuse of a world, and the biggest joke also. It doesn’t end, it keeps you in suspense and then lets you down, it is dark, cold and lonely, and the only way you can survive is on your own, it’s too thin for two people together side by side, you’ll get crushed and your bodies will paint the sides of the darkness, no one will notice, no one will care, I mean it’s not like it’s their flesh on the side so why should they. They are the problem with this sad, sadistic and detrimental society, we are all out for ourselves, we claim we understand the morals we evolved with, but in truth they have just been distorted by our sad little minds which bend around the ideas of wealth and power, but if you look carefully, even with all those superficial gifts and talents you can never be truly happy. I say being alone is the only way we can survive, and I stick by that, but because of who we are, we can never be truly happy without someone else, we were made in pairs but we can’t live in pairs, we’ve become too selfish, we covet what we see, we covet what we don’t see and we covet what we want to see. It’s not all our fault, it’s just how our brains developed, surrounded by a world in which fear is used to keep order, that fear is often abused or pushed to its very limits just so some young twat can test the boundaries a bit and feel a rush, but if it weren’t for people like that what would we be, paranoid, crippled and defenceless people with no understanding of how to live our own lives, how fucking pathetic. To think that someone could actually bring one of the most intelligent creatures we know of, cowering to their knees, shaking, like a junkie craving his crack pipe. We are a sick bunch of masochistic bastards aren’t we, and why not, what in fucks name stops us, we have the power, we have the control, we were given the pen and paper and you expect us to just sit there, no, I expect us to write, and that’s what we do, we write the shit out of it, simply because we can and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Think of this as a metaphor for life, it starts out as something plain, simple and boring, and before you know it it’s spiralled out of control into something horrifically beautiful, the perfect contrast between beauty and evil, just like a supernova, a star running out of fuel, that has the right mass, collapses in on itself and then explodes into a fiery, gaseous massive event, generating billions of degrees of heat and yet the finished picture is life, beauty and sheer utter amazement at what something can become, just like life.

Writing Posts

I'm adding a label to my blog entitled "Writing" this will just include posts which are minutely different to my standard rambling post as they have some sort of metaphor or moral by which I base on day to day things as opposed to the mindless shit that's just blunt with an obvious meaning without any need for interpretation. I love to write and this is the more imaginative rather than the opinionated writings I come up with. 

Girlfriend Problems

My friends going through a tough stage in his "Dating Life" and I felt I should blog a bit about it, just to see if this really works. 

His girlfriends a bitch - like the hight of psycho - she treats him like absolute shit all the time. Yet if you meet the guy you wouldn't understand why, seeing as he is one of the nicest most innocent people you'll ever meet. However, he's so naive which is why she walks all over him like he's her fucking doormat. Now the reason behind his naivety is his love for her, don't ask me why he loves her because I haven't got a fucking clue, and because of this love he will bend down to everything she says to him. If they argue he'll succeed and apologise because she will convince him he is in the wrong even if she was the one who caused the problem in the first place. This girl once threatened to break up with him because he lent a pair of socks to another girl! Now before you say anything about whether he loves her because she's attractive or they have great sex, neither of those explanations applies here. Although I may be a tad biased but the girl is fucking ugly, and they go for months without having sex so she can keep him on a nice leash. 

Now, recently he has become very good friends with another young lady, who I myself have no problem with. Very attractive, unlike his current girlfriend, and a girl with good intentions. Now he has always said that his girlfriend makes him happy, but, with this friend of his I believe he has started to get feelings of real happiness. Bear in mind this is the first serious relationship he has ever had and he is likely to believe this is how relationships are, no wonder what with all the scum relationships we absorb into on television everyday. Now these feelings of happiness, I believe, have caused him to develop feelings for this girl and made him start to subconsciously question the happiness he experiences with his girlfriend. Yesterday he shared a bed with this girl and another friend and he admitted to me that he was sexually attracted to her and wanted to fuck her. He told his girlfriend the next day that he shared a bed with her and drove her to the airport the next day. 

Now yes I know what he did may be perceived as unorthodox behaviour for a guy in a relationship, but she knows him and I know him, and we both know that he would have never done anything with the girl therefore it was completely innocent; after all it wasn't only them, there was another friend in the bed too. Obviously the girlfriend goes mental and says 4 things:

1. You are never to be alone with her again.
2. You are never to speak to her again.
3. You are never to drive her anywhere again.
4. If you do any of these things I will break up with you.

Now I know this girl, she's as simple as the complex ones come, she is afraid. 

When playing poker, I find myself looking down at the flop there's an Ace of hearts a 4 of hearts and a 5 of clubs. On the turn there was a King of diamonds, and a 5 of hearts off the river. I'm holding a 2 and 4 of spades. I'm also looking at this guys bet, £10,000. I look up at him. It's only me and him in the hand at this point. Now, most poker players can look at that and realise he's either got a fucking good hand or he's shit at poker. Now this guys isn't shit, I know this guy. I look at my chips, I've got close to £14,500. Theres £50,000 in the pot, ten of which is mine. I go all in. Hoping that he folds because he hasn't got enough to match my bet so he'd have to go in too. I want him to think I've got a straight flush. After all, I've been pretty confident in the game, why should he expect that I've only got a lousy pair of fours. I said I knew this guy, well he knows me, and he's lost to me before. He knows I only bet big when I know I'm going to win. Now he thinks I'm going to win, the whole table does, it's expected of me. 

My friend is the one holding the pair of aces and his girlfriend is betting big on a pair of fours. I said she was scared, now what I'm waiting on now is my mate to make his bet, I've been talking with him about it all day. He doesn't know what to do of course, he loves her but he's realised that of late she's been driving him up the fucking pole. But he's realising it at least, see before he never saw it he thought she was always right and anything his friends said was just an attempt to sabotage their relationship because we all hate her. But he's realising it. But he's scared of the pain he will endure if he breaks up with her. So I said:

"Pain is a natural occurrence in life in my opinion, you can't ever escape from it. I'd rather break my arm than have a tiny hammer peck at it constantly causing mild pain until finally it weakens the arm enough that it breaks anyway."

In the long term he's going to experience pain whatever the choice he chooses is, but in my mind the benefits of leaving her outweigh the benefits of staying with her. He can't start to feel happiness when with her now, not after experiencing true happiness with this other girl. 


He's in a tricky situation. If it were down to me I'd just dump the bitch and shag the other girl if that's what made me happy.