His girlfriends a bitch - like the hight of psycho - she treats him like absolute shit all the time. Yet if you meet the guy you wouldn't understand why, seeing as he is one of the nicest most innocent people you'll ever meet. However, he's so naive which is why she walks all over him like he's her fucking doormat. Now the reason behind his naivety is his love for her, don't ask me why he loves her because I haven't got a fucking clue, and because of this love he will bend down to everything she says to him. If they argue he'll succeed and apologise because she will convince him he is in the wrong even if she was the one who caused the problem in the first place. This girl once threatened to break up with him because he lent a pair of socks to another girl! Now before you say anything about whether he loves her because she's attractive or they have great sex, neither of those explanations applies here. Although I may be a tad biased but the girl is fucking ugly, and they go for months without having sex so she can keep him on a nice leash.
Now, recently he has become very good friends with another young lady, who I myself have no problem with. Very attractive, unlike his current girlfriend, and a girl with good intentions. Now he has always said that his girlfriend makes him happy, but, with this friend of his I believe he has started to get feelings of real happiness. Bear in mind this is the first serious relationship he has ever had and he is likely to believe this is how relationships are, no wonder what with all the scum relationships we absorb into on television everyday. Now these feelings of happiness, I believe, have caused him to develop feelings for this girl and made him start to subconsciously question the happiness he experiences with his girlfriend. Yesterday he shared a bed with this girl and another friend and he admitted to me that he was sexually attracted to her and wanted to fuck her. He told his girlfriend the next day that he shared a bed with her and drove her to the airport the next day.
Now yes I know what he did may be perceived as unorthodox behaviour for a guy in a relationship, but she knows him and I know him, and we both know that he would have never done anything with the girl therefore it was completely innocent; after all it wasn't only them, there was another friend in the bed too. Obviously the girlfriend goes mental and says 4 things:
- You are never to be alone with her again.
- You are never to speak to her again.
- You are never to drive her anywhere again.
- If you do any of these things I will break up with you.
Now I know this girl, she's as simple as the complex ones come, she is afraid.
When playing poker, I find myself looking down at the flop there's an Ace of hearts a 4 of hearts and a 5 of clubs. On the turn there was a King of diamonds, and a 5 of hearts off the river. I'm holding a 2 and 4 of spades. I'm also looking at this guys bet, £10,000. I look up at him. It's only me and him in the hand at this point. Now, most poker players can look at that and realise he's either got a fucking good hand or he's shit at poker. Now this guys isn't shit, I know this guy. I look at my chips, I've got close to £14,500. Theres £50,000 in the pot, ten of which is mine. I go all in. Hoping that he folds because he hasn't got enough to match my bet so he'd have to go in too. I want him to think I've got a straight flush. After all, I've been pretty confident in the game, why should he expect that I've only got a lousy pair of fours. I said I knew this guy, well he knows me, and he's lost to me before. He knows I only bet big when I know I'm going to win. Now he thinks I'm going to win, the whole table does, it's expected of me.
My friend is the one holding the pair of aces and his girlfriend is betting big on a pair of fours. I said she was scared, now what I'm waiting on now is my mate to make his bet, I've been talking with him about it all day. He doesn't know what to do of course, he loves her but he's realised that of late she's been driving him up the fucking pole. But he's realising it at least, see before he never saw it he thought she was always right and anything his friends said was just an attempt to sabotage their relationship because we all hate her. But he's realising it. But he's scared of the pain he will endure if he breaks up with her. So I said:
"Pain is a natural occurrence in life in my opinion, you can't ever escape from it. I'd rather break my arm than have a tiny hammer peck at it constantly causing mild pain until finally it weakens the arm enough that it breaks anyway."In the long term he's going to experience pain whatever the choice he chooses is, but in my mind the benefits of leaving her outweigh the benefits of staying with her. He can't start to feel happiness when with her now, not after experiencing true happiness with this other girl.
He's in a tricky situation. If it were down to me I'd just dump the bitch and shag the other girl if that's what made me happy.
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